boundaries
I’ve been trying to understand why I would act so extremely different with non trans guys… to read more
Where do you find your hookups? Like which websites. Thanks, I enjoy your posts
Anonymousi mainly use grindr and adam4adam. sometimes i use scruff or manhunt, but haven’t been having much luck on those sites lately. i know other guys who use growlr and bear411. Thanks!
TQ
cock before breakfast
today i woke up at about 5am and couldn’t go back to sleep and i was feeling really horny so i logged onto the sites. pretty quickly some dude hit me up. cute scruffy white guy. after a few quick messages he says he can come over.
valuing each other
while this brown gay boy and i need to change how we are in relationship with each other i value and care about him. how can i hold this moment of connection, of community and of relationship in a way that does not feed into all the negative messages that we all receive as queers of color
do you hook up with other trans men?
Anonymouswe both do and have. though both of our attractions tend to be pretty fluid and shift and change over time. for myself i don’t tend to write about other trans guys as its usually more of a dating context and i don’t usually blog about dates. however, here’s a piece my co-blogger wrote some time back
Would you say that some hook up sites happen to have more guys who are interested in FTMs than others? Is adam4adam a good place to start looking?
AnonymousHi thanks for this question. i use adam4adam alot. but i also have had luck on grindr and scruff. i seem to see lots of ftms on manhunt as well. i’ve heard that folks have luck on growlr and some of the bear sites like bear411. all that to say i wouldn’t say that in my experience any one site has more guys into ftms than others. i would say just give it a go : )
TQ
the body builder
now i’ve done some big dicks before (i couldn’t get it in) but this was ridiculous. it was not very long maybe 6, but it was the thickest cock i have ever seen. probably about an orange in thickness, think sunkist not organic.(to read more)
Short French movie about safer sex for gay trans guys. Directed by Bruce for Tu sais quoi? by Yagg and Prends moi. English subtitles by M’hamed Rahli. Not Safe For Work!
Apt. Dudes who like BB/raw will exploit any bullshit angle - “I don’t usually do trans guys” and “I can’t stay hard with a condom” and “well you can’t get pregnant, right?” Don’t fall for it, no matter how hot. If he’s pressuring you, he’s pressured others, and probably had plenty of raw sex. Not the type to take a chance on.
I'm very interested in experiencing with cismen sexually, but prefer using my front hole. How do you go about discussing this with future sex partners that are gay and usually prefer anal?
AnonymousThanks for this question. I have a similar preference and i just tell guys that i only do front hole sex and not anal when it gets to that point in the conversation. In my experience most gay guys are cool with it either they are into it or have never done it before and are curious. I have only had maybe 2 or 3 guys, out of many, turn me down as a result and I have never had a guy be rude/disrespectful about it (knock on wood). Best of luck. TQ
